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2/20/02
The Spiritual ChicksSM Speak Out!
Who took the "passion" out of compassion?

Since taking the SATs, most of us unfortunate slobs who sadly believed that our futures would be determined by how close we could get to a perfect joint English/Math score of 1600, probably haven’t spent much time learning new words or questioning the meaning of words we already know.   After pushing our brains to the limit, we found ourselves severely unfulfilled by the single-minded pursuit of intellectual knowledge as the means to some undefined but glorious academic end (or perhaps we just didn’t get into the college of our choice) and happily traded in our textbooks to remote view alternative realities, pray to the Goddess at the right time of the month, and follow the latest guru’s advice on how to achieve cosmic consciousness.  Surely after putting so much distance between our dubious scholarly pasts and our glorious spiritual presents we don’t have time for wordplay!   Well, think again!  Grab a dictionary, friends and fellow seekers, because the time has come to reclaim our brains!  

Words, just like everything else, are subject to interpretation.  They are symbols and how we define them affects how we view the world and ourselves.  For example, a common synonym for the word compassion, the hallmark of the spiritual life, is pity, a pathetic little word that brings up horrible mages of human suffering like famines in Africa or earthquakes in India to which we respond with vast sums of obligatory American dollars.  Pity  just feels negative and implies separation.  "I pity those poor children starving in..." really means, "I’m so damn glad it’s not happening to me.  Let’s send them some money so we can forget about the whole thing."  But, when you break the word compassion apart, it means with passion.  And one synonym for passion is feeling and another is love.  When we define compassion  as with loving feeling, we see life in a whole new way and can choose to truly experience another’s reality without judgment or guilt.  Pity might lead to sending money, but loving feeling leads to merging with the One Life and gaining access to a higher level of understanding as a result.  Now that’s the kind of compassion the Buddha (and many other spiritual leaders  for that matter) was talking about.  Hey, maybe that’s why we spiritually-reformed eggheads abandoned the intellectual path in the first place.  There just wasn’t any loving feeling coming through those textbooks, was there?

SM & Copyright © 2002 K. Weissman & T. Coyne

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